Ngamanye amaxesha abazali bacinga ukuba amathoyizi anqabileyo anokuchithwa kwiintsana, bacinga ukuba nangona amathoyizi amnandi amnandi kwaye akhululekile, kodwa xa kuziwa ekusebenziseni okubonakalayo, akanakuhlakulela ubukrelekrele njengeebhloko zokwakha okanye ukwandisa umculo womntwana njengezinye iithoyi zomculo.Ke bacinga ukuba iithoyi eziluhlaza aziyomfuneko ebantwaneni.
Nangona kunjalo, le mbono ayilunganga.Makhe sixoxe ngezinto zokudlala ezizuzisayo ezinokubenzela abantwana.
Xa umntwana wakho eneenyanga ezi-0-2 ubudala:
Kweli nqanaba lobomi, usana luqalisa ukuziphakamisa intloko, luncuma, lujongane emehlweni, lulandele izinto ngamehlo, luze lujike iintloko lujonge kwizandi.Amathoyizi alungileyo ngeli xesha zizinto ezithambileyo ozibambayo kwaye uvumele umntwana wakho azibandakanye nazo ngokujonga nje.Le yindlela enhle yokuba bomeleze izihlunu zentamo kwaye ibancede bagxininise amehlo abo kwaye bakhulise uphuhliso lwabo olubonakalayo.
Njengoko Iintsana Zikhula:
Nangona ikrakra njengoko injalo, iintsana azihlali ziintsana ixesha elide!Kodwa sikulungele ukuba secaleni kwakho njengoko besiba neenyanga ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-6 ubudala.Ngaloo minyaka, iintsana zikhangele kwisibuko kwaye ziphendule igama labo.Banokuqengqeleka ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye, kwaye abaninzi banokuhlala ngaphandle kwenkxaso eyongezelelweyo.
Ngeli xesha, izinto zokudlala ezixubileyo zizinto ezifanelekileyo zolwimi ukuze iintsana zifunde kwaye ziqeqeshe ulwimi.Xa abantwana bedlala nezilwanyana ezixhonyiweyo, “bathetha” nazo ngokungathi zizidalwa eziphilayo.Musa ukulujongela phantsi olu hlobo lonxibelelwano.Eli lithuba lokuba abantwana baziveze ngamazwi.Ngale ndlela yokuthetha, banokusebenzisa izakhono zabo zolwimi, babancede kuqeqesho lolwimi, bakhuthaze ukukhula koluvo nokulungelelanisa imisebenzi yomzimba.
Izinto zokudlala eziphucukileyo zinokuvuselela iimvakalelo zomntwana wakho.I-plush ethambileyo inokuvuselela ukubanjwa komntwana, ukumila okuthandekayo kunokuvuselela umbono womntwana.Izinto zokudlala ezixubileyo zinokunceda abantwana babambe kwaye baqonde ihlabathi.
Ixesha lokuposa: Apr-30-2022